Never lose a wink of sleep or get stressed about a relationship again.
Welcome Dear One,
I help smart, self-aware, and loving women have stress-free relationships. It is a bonus if you love purple :-).
We spend way too much time and energy on worry and stress about other people in our lives.
That is costly to our health, wealth, and peace-of-mind.
Whether you are focusing on yourself, dating to find the right partner, wanting an outstanding marriage, dealing with unhealthy family or work relationships, or wanting to uplevel the people in your life, I can help.
Get on the phone with me and feel better all around (your first call with me is my gift to you).
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The relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. ~ Robert Holden
Hi, I’m Dr. Dar, Love Coach, Relationship Virtuoso, and Communication Maven. It is my mission in life to help women be empowered in their relationships and selves while creating reciprocal, fulfilling, and healthy relationships.
Here is what I believe: We as women as walking talking stress balls that are exploding more frequently than ever before. When we as women nurture our true nature, stop comparing ourselves to someone else’s measures, learn how to diffuse conflict and create harmony, this world, our world will become a utopia. Our world is desperately calling on us to rise to our highest good.
That’s why I am passionate about helping you eliminate stress, make difficult conversations easy, have joy and ease, know when to walk away and be happy about it, and have reciprocal, fulfilling, and connected relationships.
Here are some examples of what my clients were experiencing in their lives.
I’m tired of being lonely, single, going on bad dates, and having relationships that end. How can I fix my love life and find my soul mate?
I’m stressed out, overwhelmed and feel disconnected from my partner. How can I save my relationship?
I am tired of struggling in my life. I want to design and have a life that I love, that loves me back and a life full of joy and ease.
I want to feel good about myself, my work, my finances and my relationships.
I want to feel good about myself, my work, my finances and my relationships.
My Most Popular Stress Free Relationship Programs
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Years in Business
I honor the privacy, confidentiality, and safety of my clients; therefore, their names and photos are disguised to protect their identify.
Wise, Truthful, Fair
Darshana Hawks is a friend as well as an advisor. She’s the kind of friend that you need to have to be able to see yourself clearly, that other friends may not feel comfortable doing. Her gift of spiritual Truths come freely out of her during a conversation as if she’s been working and living these Truths most of her life. She embodies everything a Coach should be, in my opinion. Wise, truthful, sincere, loyal, fair, Honest, and most of all, Wise. What we look for in going to someone else for help in whatever areas we are working towards in our lives is someone who knows more than we do, that can already see the bigger picture. And Darshana is wise beyond her years, a true friend and coach that I am only too honored to have found. – Laurel L.
I tried Dr. Dar’s methods to find my soul mate and IT WORKED! I categorically eliminated anyone who showed interest in me if they did not have a photo. Suddenly I got an email from a man who intrigued me, but no photo. Remembering Darshana’s story of how she met her husband online, I took a deep breath and gave it a shot. We emailed a bit, spoke a bit and agreed to meet for lunch. When I met Mr. Wonderful he was not drop dead gorgeous but he was so “wonderful” that I was able to leave my superficiality at the door and begin to get to know the real man. I am happy to report that it’s been a month and we’re still going strong. He’s definitely a keeper and I’m glad I followed Darshana’s advice. – Sally C.
Singles Coaching Gave Me Insights
Singles Coaching has given me insights that I can’t easily see for myself. I am already on a spiritual conscious path, yet when we are in it, it’s hard to see clearly. She is the eyes that have helped me to see those parts of me that need the love and forgiveness and insight that I lack. Relationships help you see those things about yourself, but when you aren’t in a committed relationship, it is hard to do the work you need or would like to do. Darshana is that and more. – Rob P.
Break Bad Dating Habits
Know Thyself – it’s a rule that I try to live by, but sometimes, you need help to understand yourself and how you tick. The in-depth exercises in Dr. Dar’s course are extremely helpful. They are thought-provoking, and really give you the opportunity to do the work necessary to break bad dating habits and patterns. This, of course, is necessary in order to move to the next level. Thanks to the `course, I can honestly say, I know myself better and feel confident that with the coaching I’ve received, and I am on the right track to meeting the love of my life. – Anna J.
This Is Real
Wow! Thank you so much for your work with me on Wednesday. I knew that there were some shifts going on with me while we were talking. When I woke early Thursday morning my words to myself were “this is real” and I knew that we had done the work I needed to do. For your gift I thank you. I realize that within me there is more work to be done regarding my divorce, however, I feel much stronger and ready to lean into the healing that awaits. – David L. (Interfaith Minister)
Darshana helped us find the good in each other. Both of us had felt that in our business experiences we had developed good listening skills. Unfortunately, the dynamics trying to practice those listening skills in a personal and emotional marriage left both of us with little trust and respect to truly listen and in turn to be heard. One of the most spectacular tools I brought away from Dr. Dar is the ability to see, forecast and watch myself slipping into a state of trying desperately to be heard while not listening at all. Darshana taught us to use a disciplined process for resolving differences. – Art L. (Engineer)
In Love Again
I was moving out the weekend that my husband found Darshana to help us make a final effort to save our marriage. I felt the energy shift during our first session, and within weeks the new and wonderful changes started manifesting in our lives personally and in our relationship. It feels as though a big stumbling block has been removed: a stumbling block that almost led us to separate. We are communicating better, we’re kinder to each other, and we enjoy being together again. We both treat each other respectfully … not because we “should”, but because we want to. Darshana assisted us in taking what feels like giant steps in our personal growth, which of course is reflected in our marriage. We feel in love again. Darshana has been a blessing to our marriage. – Karen R. (Therapist)
I feel secure again
With Darshana, I feel hopeful about my future and my relationship with my future partner. I also feel secure in knowing I have practical tools to use to continue to transform dating to find love and the thriving partnership I truly want with all my heart. – Karen L. (Entrepreneur)
How to say it
Sometimes all you need is someone to mention the obvious. Darshana does that and more. In a very short time, she has become a friend and big sister. I was scared to bring up a topic to my husband, thinking he would not be on the same page as I was. Darshana helped me realize that he could be – but there was no way to tell unless I asked. She coached me through the conversation and how to go about it – and today – I know that we do want the same things – all it took was a conversation. Thanks, Darshana! – Gretchen P. NC
Our marriage is saved
Darshana helped us find the good in each other. The controlled climate of acceptance instead of tolerance and listening that Darshana helped us create allowed each of us to lay out our feelings and our needs without interruption. Darshana taught us to resolve our differences. We learned to stop attacking each other, accept each other, listen openly, and hear each other. Our marriage is saved thanks to Darshana’s help. – Frank O. (Professional Coach)
During our search for help with the problems we were having in our marriage, Darshana was the most effective, insightful, and inspirational “counselor” I ever experienced. I was relieved that she had no agenda; she was dedicated only to help us find what was best for ourselves. She listened and helped us listen to each other and to our own hearts. When she spoke, she expressed her ideas kindly as options for us to consider, and at the same time she clearly pointed out to each of us the things we were avoiding. She helped and guided us to be with our relationship and ourselves in a new way, aiding us to let the old way be a lesson of our past. – Geoffrey R. (Teacher)
Since I was experiencing my current, 20 year relationship as less than wonderful, I hired Darshana to coach me and then to coach both my husband and me. Darshana’s work with us covered soup to nuts – meaning from grocery shopping to finances to dissecting a simple communication interchange to sex. She accomplished in 2 days what 20 years of therapy did not. After our work with Darshana, I began to notice that my communication with others was cleaner, more precise and I am learning to be clear about when agreements are made and what they really are and to be aware when they are left incomplete and what the results are. – Lorraine L. (Executive and Business Coach)
I Would Refer Her
I have and would refer Darshana to others because of her commitment to her clients and the work that she does with purpose and clean intention. She produces in hours what it would take others months – even years. I have worked with many coaches and counselors and Darshana stands out because of her ability to listen behind the words and to ask the very laser-like questions that get to the heart of the matter in ways that allow the client to discover underlying patterns that have held them stuck for years. My daughter was in an abusive relationship and Darshana accomplished in 4 hours what a psychologist could not in 10 months! What is important to me isn’t so much the speed but the soundness and clarity of the coaching. ~ Lorraine L. (Business Coach)