In times of stress, the best thing we can do for each other is to listen with our ears and our hearts and to be assured that our questions are just as important as our answers.”  ~ Fred (Mister) Rogers

I am Dr. Dar and I bring calm solutions to stressful situations in life including dating, marriage, work and relationships. Get on the phone with me and it’s handled with ease.

I believe that stress is a block to believing in ourselves, conceiving our dreams, receiving magic and miracles, and achieving our desires. I invite you to start with identifying your Be Stress Free Superpower.  Take the Be Stress Free Quiz.

Magic: a special and exciting quality that makes something different from your ordinary. [Source]
Miracles: very lucky events that are surprising and unexpected; excellent achievements in a particular area of activity. [Source]

I help professional women take the stress out of:

  • Talking about their dreams and activating them 1 step at a time
  • Attracting the Love of their Life
  • Handling problems in their marriage
  • Dealing with issues at work
  • Having a website and business that serves them
  • Having reciprocal family interactions
  • Loving their job or work
  • Creating a life that they love that loves them back

I am all about making things easy, painless and stress free. Meet Dr. Dar.

What if you:

  • Believe in yourself
  • Can conceive your dreams and desires
  • Receive all that you desire in alignment with what feels good
  • Achieve what you desire to be, do and have
  • Have complete power and choice in all areas of your life
  • Can attract everything that’s aligned with what feels good to you
  • Alleviate and eliminate anxiety and stress
  • Position yourself for affluence in all areas of your life.

My Stress Free Programs

Stress Free Dating System

Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 percent of all your happiness or misery. H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

The Stress Free Dating System is a logical, mental, and emotional process that makes meeting the love of your life simpler.  If you are tired of the dating jungle and do want a committed, long-term, loving, supportive and reciprocal relationship… then give my Stress Free Dating System a go.  Every single woman who has worked with me since 2005 found the love of their life within 3 to 12 months. 

Stress Free Life

When you nurture your nature, nature nurtures you. Donald L. Hicks

Living a stress free life is within your reach and you don’t have to stretch far at all to be stress free. Your first step is to identify your primary superpower in the Be Stress Free Quiz. Then… align all areas of your life, your motivations, interests, needs, desires, dreams, relationships, work, and your choices with your superpower… and voila, you have a stress free life.  Sound too simple… let’s get on the phone and I’ll show you just how simple it really is for you. I invite you to take the Be Stress Free Quiz to begin your alignment process.

Stress Free Marriage Experience

To be loved is one thing.  To be understood is profound. ~ Ellen DeGeneres

The Stress Free Marriage Experience is an appreciative process that deepens connection, communication, listening and intimate relationships.  If you are on the fence between staying or leaving, are experiencing struggle in some areas, have communication problems, recovering from an affair, or want to create a strong foundation in your relationship, then my Stress Free Marriage Experience is for you.

Stress Free Website & Business

Alone we can do a little.  Together we can do so much. ~ Helen Keller

Everything you do in your business (marketing, content, websites, sales, etc.) is connected to YoU and those you touch.  I have had quite the journey in my own businesses that became stress free once I was clear about who I work best with, who I am here to serve, the value I bring, and the value you receive.  My experience and knowledge is diverse which allows me to be holistic.  My clients come to me because they want a simple website, don’t want to worry about the techie stuff, want someone who understands them and can coach them about both the technology and business. Learn More.

Wise, Truthful, Fair

Darshana Hawks is a friend as well as an advisor. She’s the kind of friend that you need to have to be able to see yourself clearly, that other friends may not feel comfortable doing. Her gift of spiritual Truths come freely out of her during a conversation as if she’s been working and living these Truths most of her life. She embodies everything a Coach should be, in my opinion. Wise, truthful, sincere, loyal, fair, Honest, and most of all, Wise. What we look for in going to someone else for help in whatever areas we are working towards in our lives is someone who knows more than we do, that can already see the bigger picture. And Darshana is wise beyond her years, a true friend and coach that I am only too honored to have found.  – Laurel L.

It Worked!

I tried Dr. Dar’s methods to find my soul mate and IT WORKED!  I categorically eliminated anyone who showed interest in me if they did not have a photo. Suddenly I got an email from a man who intrigued me, but no photo.  Remembering Darshana’s story of how she met her husband online, I took a deep breath and gave it a shot. We emailed a bit, spoke a bit and agreed to meet for lunch. When I met Mr. Wonderful he was not drop dead gorgeous but he was so “wonderful” that I was able to leave my superficiality at the door and begin to get to know the real man.  I am happy to report that it’s been a month and we’re still going strong. He’s definitely a keeper and I’m glad I followed Darshana’s advice.  – Sally C.

Singles Coaching Gave Me Insights

Singles Coaching has given me insights that I can’t easily see for myself. I am already on a spiritual conscious path, yet when we are in it, it’s hard to see clearly. She is the eyes that have helped me to see those parts of me that need the love and forgiveness and insight that I lack. Relationships help you see those things about yourself, but when you aren’t in a committed relationship, it is hard to do the work you need or would like to do. Darshana is that and more.  – Rob P.

Break Bad Dating Habits

Know Thyself – it’s a rule that I try to live by, but sometimes, you need help to understand yourself and how you tick.  The in-depth exercises in Dr. Dar’s course are extremely helpful. They are thought-provoking, and really give you the opportunity to do the work necessary to break bad dating habits and patterns.  This, of course, is necessary in order to move to the next level. Thanks to the `course, I can honestly say, I know myself better and feel confident that with the coaching I’ve received,  and I am on the right track to meeting the love of my life.  – Anna J.

This Is Real

Wow!  Thank you so much for your work with me on Wednesday. I knew that there were some shifts going on with me while we were talking. When I woke early Thursday morning my words to myself were “this is real” and I knew that we had done the work I needed to do.  For your gift I thank you. I realize that within me there is more work to be done regarding my divorce, however, I feel much stronger and ready to lean into the healing that awaits.  – David L. (Interfaith Minister)

Resolve Differences

Darshana helped us find the good in each other. Both of us had felt that in our business experiences we had developed good listening skills. Unfortunately, the dynamics trying to practice those listening skills in a personal and emotional marriage left both of us with little trust and respect to truly listen and in turn to be heard. One of the most spectacular tools I brought away from Dr. Dar is the ability to see, forecast and watch myself slipping into a state of trying desperately to be heard while not listening at all. Darshana taught us to use a disciplined process for resolving differences. – Art L. (Engineer)

In Love Again

I was moving out the weekend that my husband found Darshana to help us make a final effort to save our marriage. I felt the energy shift during our first session, and within weeks the new and wonderful changes started manifesting in our lives personally and in our relationship.  It feels as though a big stumbling block has been removed: a stumbling block that almost led us to separate. We are communicating better, we’re kinder to each other, and we enjoy being together again. We both treat each other respectfully … not because we “should”, but because we want to. Darshana assisted us in taking what feels like giant steps in our personal growth, which of course is reflected in our marriage.  We feel in love again. Darshana has been a blessing to our marriage. – Karen R. (Therapist)

I feel secure again

With Darshana, I feel hopeful about my future and my relationship with my future partner. I also feel secure in knowing I have practical tools to use to continue to transform dating to find love and the thriving partnership I truly want with all my heart.  – Karen L. (Entrepreneur)

How to say it

Sometimes all you need is someone to mention the obvious. Darshana does that and more. In a very short time, she has become a friend and big sister. I was scared to bring up a topic to my husband, thinking he would not be on the same page as I was. Darshana helped me realize that he could be – but there was no way to tell unless I asked. She coached me through the conversation and how to go about it – and today – I know that we do want the same things – all it took was a conversation. Thanks, Darshana! – Gretchen P. NC

Our marriage is saved

Darshana helped us find the good in each other. The controlled climate of acceptance instead of tolerance and listening that Darshana helped us create allowed each of us to lay out our feelings and our needs without interruption. Darshana taught us to resolve our differences. We learned to stop attacking each other, accept each other, listen openly, and hear each other.  Our marriage is saved thanks to Darshana’s help. – Frank O. (Professional Coach)

No Agenda

During our search for help with the problems we were having in our marriage, Darshana was the most effective, insightful, and inspirational “counselor” I ever experienced.  I was relieved that she had no agenda; she was dedicated only to help us find what was best for ourselves. She listened and helped us listen to each other and to our own hearts. When she spoke, she expressed her ideas kindly as options for us to consider, and at the same time she clearly pointed out to each of us the things we were avoiding.  She helped and guided us to be with our relationship and ourselves in a new way, aiding us to let the old way be a lesson of our past.  – Geoffrey R. (Teacher)

Cleaner Communication

Since I was experiencing my current, 20 year relationship as less than wonderful, I hired Darshana to coach me and then to coach both my husband and me. Darshana’s work with us covered soup to nuts – meaning from grocery shopping to finances to dissecting a simple communication interchange to sex.  She accomplished in 2 days what 20 years of therapy did not.  After our work with Darshana, I began to notice that my communication with others was cleaner, more precise and I am learning to be clear about when agreements are made and what they really are and to be aware when they are left incomplete and what the results are. – Lorraine L. (Executive and Business Coach)

I Would Refer Her

I have and would refer Darshana to others because of her commitment to her clients and the work that she does with purpose and clean intention. She produces in hours what it would take others months – even years. I have worked with many coaches and counselors and Darshana stands out because of her ability to listen behind the words and to ask the very laser-like questions that get to the heart of the matter in ways that allow the client to discover underlying patterns that have held them stuck for years. My daughter was in an abusive relationship and Darshana accomplished in 4 hours what a psychologist could not in 10 months! What is important to me isn’t so much the speed but the soundness and clarity of the coaching.   ~ Lorraine L. (Business Coach)

Years in Business

Nurtured Lives


Happy Clients

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Your Realized Benefits


Harness Your Brilliance

You, everything that encompasses you, in body and spirit, have brilliance.  When you own your brilliance distilled from your uniqueness, you have a life, relationships, and work you love. Unlearn the not you and Be YoU!



Know you have an incredible superpower… the power of your choice… Know how to use it to be at your best, to succeed in your life and relationships, and be happy, healthy, and whole.


Happy Relationships

Reciprocity in relationships is a delicate balance of receiving and giving. When that balance is disturbed, discontent in life, work and relationships happens. 
Get back into balance, be confident, and be centered as you receive.


Magical Results

Believe, conceive, receive and achieve. Have clarity about what you want for your life. Take one step at a time.  Appreciate the results that show up for you. It’s Magical!

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