Why The Five Relationship Superpowers Matter
To Have Remarkable Relationships
(and what to do for the ones that aren’t)
As Emotional, Sensitive, Intuitive and Smart Women, we feel coerced into being and living in an emotionally numbing way layered with shame, guilt, and self-blame so that we can coexist with others. It’s like we have no choice but to give in or give up.
You are so sensitive!
Stop being so defensive!
You are too emotional!
Why do you always have to make things so hard?
You are unworthy. You are to blame. You are the problem.
These are not Relationship Superpowers!
These are accusations that propelled us to change who we are so that we can be loved. We did everything we could to coexist in our relationships, as harmoniously as possible. Until one day, we could not muster up the strength or courage to do it anymore.
Staying in these relationships, with our hearts closed and relying on our critical left brain, like we and others were trained to do, caused us to question ourselves, our worth, and our ways of being, while we stuffed our feelings as far down our gullets as we could.
We trained ourselves
To be silent, not question anyone, be overpowered, and suffer in silence. We then carried this forward into other relationships in our personal and professional lives. We continued to feel unworthy, unappreciated, undervalued, unaccepted, unheard, and unloved. This has been costly to our health, wealth, and peace-of-mind. The stress and weight on our minds, bodies, and hearts that built layer after layer over time has a breaking point.
Figuring out how to be ourselves, fully, as an introvert, empath, sensitive, intuitive, or emotional being, while simultaneously trying to communicate and connect with people who just don’t get us or don’t want to, in an extroverted world, is challenging. And exhausting. Relationship Superpower Coach
Knowing your Relationship Superpowers
And how to use it will give you the will, strength, and courage to be yourself, understand yourself so that others understand you, and have conversations, be heard, and create desired results. You can create remarkable relationships and lives by using and understanding these five superpowers.
I am here to guide you.
Hi, I am Dr. Dar, Your Relationship Superpower and Life Coach. I help emotional, sensitive, empathic, introvert, intuitive and smart women leverage their relationship superpowers to make sense of their past relationships and create remarkable relationships going forward.
The Five Relationship Superpowers
There are 5 Relationship Superpowers that can create joy, understanding, connection, and love. They also can create conflict, tension, and discord. Relationship Coach uses Choice Theo
Take the quiz to learn which of the five superpowers is your relationship superpower.
Love & Belonging
The Relationship Superpower Programs
Click the option that resonates with you the most right now.
It seems my heart is made of tissue paper;
I wish the world would handle it more delicately.
― Richelle E. Goodrich
Examples of how I can help as your Relationship Superpower and Life Coach:
I want to have a loving relationship, but I am scared of being hurt again, attracting the same painful experiences, and struggling with dating. I don’t want to give up but dating and loving again is hard.
I’m stressed out, overwhelmed and feel disconnected from my partner. Can I save my relationship and have my own needs met?
I have a strained relationship with my parents. It is impacting my ability to believe in myself. I want to change it but I don’t know how to make things better between us. Can you help me?
I have a hard time saying no to my manager so I end up doing more than my coworkers and not get appreciated for it. How do I stop being an enabler in my life and starting living my own life?
Millions of people have decided not to be sensitive. They have grown thick skins around themselves just to avoid being hurt by anybody. But it is at great cost. Nobody can hurt them, but nobody can make them happy either.
Years in Business
I honor the privacy, confidentiality, and safety of my clients; therefore, their names and photos are disguised to protect their identify.