Dr. Dar… What You Need To Know

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Most people pleasers struggle with thriving in life, relationships, business, and work… allowing themselves to receive bounty.

Dr. Dar, Metaphysical Life Coach for People Pleasers

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Maybe it’s a difficult relationship. Or not knowing how to communicate how you’re feeling, especially when you’re not feeling good. Dr. Dar, Life Coach for People Pleasers

Issues and stress at work, having a hard time finding the right person to have a relationship with, body image issues, financial worries, and this isn’t even the full list. Dr. Dar, Metaphysical Life Coach for People Pleasers


So many people can’t figure out how to choose what brings them joy and ease.

It’s even harder to figure out how to eliminate stress, pressure, or struggles and create harmony in life when trying to figure it out alone.

For years I struggled… Yes I was 
in your shoes.

For years I struggled with not honoring my own choices. Dr. Dar, Metaphysical Life Coach for People Pleasers

All I wanted to do was create harmony with all the people putting pressure on me. I wanted to be what they wanted me to be and do what they wanted me to do in my personal and my professional life.

Eventually, this took a toll on my mental, physical, and emotional health…

Then I realized that I was giving everything and everyone power to define my life and work.

I had been laid off and was in a funk for almost a year.

You see, my whole identity was associated with the company I worked for so when I was no longer there, I had to figure out who I was all over again.

I tried changing jobs, making new friends, letting go of the old, dating someone different, and even distancing myself from my family. Dr. Dar, Metaphysical Life Coach for People Pleasers

I still didn’t get it.  

When Things Finally Started to Change

It was only when I realized that everything and everyone in my life was responding to me and my choices, and not the other way around.

I began learning about ‘the needs that drive my choices’.

That’s when I finally saw things start to change.  


The Superpowers Emerged.

The Feel Good Superpowers Emerged - Dr. Dar Hawks

I had trained everyone in my life to expect me to be their end-all-be-all to whatever was going on… at work, in my relationships. Dr. Dar, Life Coach for People Pleasers

I would do everything I could to be a “contribution” to them and their lives. (You’re feeling me here huh?) 

I attracted people, experiences, and things into my life that supported my behavior and actions.

I focused my life on everything and everyone else.

You may think that sounds so wonderful, right?  “How great is it that you care so much about everyone and everything in your life?!”


I dated the wrong guys for me.

I chose jobs and work environments that were ultimately unhealthy for me.

I distanced myself from family thinking that would create something different in my life.

Then I Had Another Insightful Moment

What if I had this all inside out and backward?

What if I looked at my life, all that is in it, and all that I attracted from the viewpoint of Me Being the Chooser? Dr. Dar, Life Coach for People Pleasers

What if I aligned with my Superpower?

That’s when my life and relationships changed.

I learned about my Feel Good Relationship Superpower.

And I began using it to help me make the best choices for me and my life.

I found the love of my life within 6 weeks of this mental and emotional shift.

My relationships became harmonious and reciprocal.

And I found jobs… and built a thriving coaching business that aligned with my Superpower. Dr. Dar, Life Coach for People Pleasers

I stopped making choices that matched the lowest-rated powers on the Feel Good Superpower Quiz.

And since I had (figuratively) figured out how to get out of that dark cave, I began working with others, helping to guide them forward in their lives using THEIR Superpower.

I started helping my clients become the Superpower oriented chooser in their life so that they too can transform their lives and relationships.

They were so stuck in their left brain mindset, that they could not see their way out. (Been there done that.)

After a short session with me, we unlocked the stronghold their left brain had on their heart, shifted the way they saw their situation, and created a path forward that honored their Superpower and achieved their desired result.

This my dear is what I want for you too.

I’m Dr. Dar, Your Feel Good Alchemist.


My purpose, my mission, and my joy is to help you shed the shackles that create struggle in your life, work, and relationships so that you feel good and thrive in your life, relationships and work, every day!

My work with you Metaphysical Life Coach for People Pleasers

I honor you, your energy, your nature, and the patterns that align with what you want in your life and relationships.

We address your thoughts, feelings, and moods as energetic forms that are not serving your highest good.

(Because it doesn’t feel good to stay there, right?)

We work simply to transcend the old and embrace the inner joyful truth in you.

And from my heart I want you to know:

  • You are not broken or in need of fixing.
  • There are things or happenings in your life that do not feel good.
  • Designing a life, work, and relationships that feel good by honoring and nurturing your divinely inherent nature and patterns… instead of fighting or shutting them out… is absolutely achievable.
  • I believe in the power and energy of love.
  • I believe in feeling good.
  • I believe in simple, practical, and applicable approaches to feeling good and creating a life you love.
  • I believe that good things happen in our lives, relationships, and work when we feel good about ourselves.
  • I believe in you.
  • I see you. I honor you. I love you!
Dr. Dar - Feel Good Alchemist
Dr. Dar - Grounding In The Grass
4/6 Mental Projector9 – Enneagram
Archetype – MagicianAmbivert

StrengthsFinder: Maximizer, Relator, Empathy, Connectedness, and Strategic

My Approach & Philosophy 

I believe: Metaphysical Life Coach for People Pleasers

  • People pleasers make the world a better place
  • In the inherent goodness of humanity
  • We have a relationship with everything in our lives
  • Everything is Energy
  • Everything has a connection
  • In the unseen forces conspiring on your behalf
  • When we feel good about ourselves, everything in our lives falls into the feel-good place
  • Feeling good is the gateway to Receiving
  • By transforming your energy, you transform your relationships
  • By aligning your energy, you transform your world.

And I Love: 

  • Our beautiful planet, nature, and trees
  • Animals (I am a dog gal)
  • Tie-Dye
  • The Moon and Sky
  • Energy
  • My family
  • Nurturing my nature
  • Reading, quilting, napping, painting (new passion)
  • Being contribution
  • Feeling good.

In case you want the serious stuff (a.k.a my credentials)

Credentials: Bachelor’s and Masters in Business Administration & Ph.D. in Metaphysics, Philosophy, and Human Behavior. 


  • Master Relationship Coach (Singles and Couples) – Relationship Coaching Institute
  • Master Spirit in Business Coach – Spirit in Business Academy
  • Family Coach – The Academy of Family Coaching
  • Life, Change, and Leadership – Coachville
  • Project Management Professional – Project Management Institute
  • Agile Coach and Scrum Master

Student of:
Metaphysics, Communication, Relationships, Energy, Eastern and Western Astrology, Choice Theory, Astro-Psychology, Depth Psychology, Ontology, Human Design, the Moon, the Six Elements, and Living in the Now.

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