Be Relationship Ready

Before Diving Into Your Next One, So You Are Ready for The One

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Be Relationship Ready

Before Diving Into Your Next One,

So You Are Ready for The One Who Adores, Respects, Nurtures, and Honors You as a Giver and People Pleaser

You are the star of your next relationship…

I know… putting yourself first and foremost does not come easy as a people pleaser, giver, and believer in the potential of your prior partner(s) and relationship(s).  You found yourself doing it all… giving your all… only to realize that your partner and relationship never lived up to the potential you so strongly and firmly believed in. 

You’ve been let down, dismissed, unappreciated, manipulated, controlled, or taken for granted.  And you’re tired of it.

You want to change things… but just don’t know how.

Which is why you are here… now.

You want to:

  • Stop attracting the takers, selfish, narcissists, controllers, and manipulators… kissing frogs that turn out to be ungrateful toads 🙂
  • Approach relationships and dating differently going forward
  • Be in control… instead of being controlled 
  • Heal from your past relationships
  • Remove any blocks to receiving and having the love your desire and dream about
  • Have a structured way to move through your inner self work and healing… and avoid investing years into this phase of your life 
  • Make self honoring choices in your relationships going forward and
  • Shift your attraction energy so that you manifest your ideal partner.

Let’s be honest though…

You don’t enjoy the games that you believe come with dating. 

Dating lots of people is just not your cuppa tea. If you’re like me, you are a one relationship at a time type of gal.  And, you thought that staying in a not-so-great relationship is better than not having one.

Until now.  

You want to work on yourself… and be ready for your ideal relationship in the future.  You wonder how to even start knowing what your ideal is… what it looks like, feels like, and dare I say… tastes like :-).

Welcome to the Inside-Out Approach to be relationship ready… and naturally attract the love of your life.

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You’ve tried reading books, following traditional and online dating and relationship advice, and answering typical questions to try and describe your ideal or dream partner… like what they do, where they live, how old they are, how much money they earn, what they read, what shows they watch, and how to describe their personality… but still you’re not feeling connected with your dream partner in your heart and body… and you’re not attracting them either.  And… it’s confusing to know which advice will work for you and your needs.


  • What if it is possible for you to naturally attract your aligned dream partner, just by showing shifting your mindset, energy, and feels?
  • What if, you have been attracting your misaligned partner all this time because those experiences were clues to who your dream partner really is?
  • What if… you could know exactly who your aligned dream partner is and is not within 3 to 5 minutes of speaking with them?
  • What if you could attract your aligned dream partner by knowing the  words you want to hear they say… ahead of time… so that when you do meet them… you know if they are a match or not?

All of this and more is possible.

When you align your energy with that of your Aligned Dream Partner, you have the rays of the sun warming your heart and soul each and every day.

It feels reciprocal, mutual, kind, caring, generous, and it just flows with joy and ease.  You are appreciated, honored, understood, loved and respected.

When you rewire your brain and body’s energy, you attract your Dream Aligned Partner, naturally… with joy and ease… trusting that your energy will start doing the manifesting for you because you now have emotional and mental clarity… and the rewiring is as easy as working with my energy to tune in to address:

  • Shattering past relationship patterns
  • Removing blocks to receiving the love of your life 
  • Opening your heart to being loved… fully, safely, and honorably
  • Dating through the lens of your human design type for the purpose of dream life partner attraction
  • Shifting all beliefs and energy that are keeping you from attracting your dream aligned life partner
  • Clarity about the desired results you want to have for yourself and your life.  

Free 20 Min Chat

Start with a free 20-minute consultation to see if this is a dream fit for you.  You’ll receive 3 takeaways from our conversation as a gift.


Be Relationship Ready Coaching

Schedule your 1st sesh during your free chat sesh to start attracting your aligned dream partner. Learn what you get in your 1st session.


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Hello! I’m Dr. Dar

The Feel Good Alchemist

Even reading this page is hard to do when you’re in pain.  You hurt in your belly, heart, and your mind is so heavy, you cannot think clearly.

I understand… deeply.  

Let me share why…

The memory of hearing my fiancé on the phone with his ex-girlfriend, who was married and never planned to leave her husband, is still here with me.

That betrayal, the lying, the cheating, the words and actions being opposites of each other. 

I went outside and sat in my car… just to get away from him.

He came outside and asked me to come in.  I said no.

I said I was done.  He said he would leave.

That was that.

Then, I had to face…

The humiliation and embarrassment of having to tell my family after the beautiful Indian Engagement Ceremony they had done for us.

This was my thirty-first failed relationship.

I fell to the floor in my home and cried for three days.  You can read all about it here.  You’ll learn that I created an unconventional formula to attract my dream partner… manifested him… and have been married to him, happily, since 2000.

And now,  I am here to partner with you to attract the love of your life… your dream partner.

Let’s chat to first see if the Be Relationship Ready coaching is for you!

P.S.  Besides having a sh*ton of relationships gone sour from my past, I’m also trained to work with singles on dating and attracting love by The Relationship Coaching Institute.  You should also know that I walk my talk.  I have done the inner work and use the tools and techniques that I will share with you  daily in my relationships.

Do something today that your Future Self will thank you for.
~ Sean Patrick Flannery

What My Clients Say

I’ve realized that what I fear about meeting partner prospects is being the empowered one! I’ve been conditioned to believe it’s easier to be a victim of circumstance and other people’s choices. Now I am given the opportunity to be the one to decide who and what works for me. It takes courage!  I now have a clear picture of what I want and more importantly how to get it.

After I completed Dr. Dar’s Relationship Readiness program, I easily wrote my Match.com profile from the heart and included some things I had learned about myself and what I am looking for. I got so many responses from men that told me they could sense my wisdom, maturity and openness by reading my profile! That really boosted my self-esteem too, knowing that it’s attractive to be authentic.  I also attracted men who were more in alignment with who I am and what I want in my life.

It was easy to get to know Dr. Dar right away because she is very open and kind. She is very receptive and responsive and seems to be able to sense the situation even after only having known us for a relatively short period of time. She is always upbeat, approachable, honest and positive.

If you really want to create change in your life, this is worth the investment!  I highly recommend Dr. Dar’s Relationship  Readiness System.  It is Fantastic!

Here is the audio version:

Amy P.

I can’t say enough about Dr. Dar and the Relationship Readiness System. It’s about so much more than dating. I really found myself.

After ending a five-year marriage with the person I had built not only a life but also a business and career with, it was hard to conceive of “getting back out there.” I had many concerns about judgment for pursuing the program before our divorce was finalized (despite a long prior separation).  I

As a result of The Relationship Readiness System, I started connecting with new people for the first time in seven years! Finally, I can identify more consciously how I want to connect, and who I want to connect with. I am more self-aware of my own superpowers, requirements, needs, and desires.

Dr. Dar was patient and reassuring even before I signed up for the program! Her wisdom, energy, and guidance are the magical ingredient that makes this program unlike anything else.

Beyond that, I had so much self-discovery through the questions and exercises she created. The way everything came together toward the end had exponential results! I am now solid in my relationship with myself, and my understanding of what I want as I move forward with dating and relationships.

I’ve started to meet prospective partners who meet my requirements, and far beyond! I’m enjoying the experience and learning more about what I want, and I feel like a whole new person!

Dr. Dar’s energy, encouragement, and wisdom, the cumulative impact of the program components as it progresses, how much awareness I’ve gained about myself and what I want, and the fact that I’ve met some amazing people since diving back into pursuing relationships again after seven years!

Sarah M.

I am so blessed to have met you.  Before I participated in the Relationship Readiness System, I was isolated during the holidays, did not even go out with friends, stayed in my safe zone with my family and cried a lot because I was lonely and wanted to be and have love in my life again.  I was scared of being hurt again.

Now, after just 2 weeks in the Relationship Readiness System, I actually took myself out on a date for lunch.  I have not done that in over 15 years. I experienced shifts that I never thought I could or would before I met you and experienced your energy and work.


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Say Yes to Your 1st Be Relationship Ready Session and Attract Your Aligned Dream Partner

Here’s What You Will Receive in Session 1

  • Energy astrology – we work with your body energy map, natal chart, energy type, dating decision process, and internal check-in process as a foundation to clearing anything you no longer want to attract… so you can activate attracting your dream partner
  • An overview of the 15 Dimensions of healthy relationships to help you gain mental and emotional clarity… because when you are crystal clear, your energy starts working for you to attract your ideal partner
  • Keywords, behaviors, and actions to listen for to identify your dream partner
  • An exit plan and strategy for when you want to end the date or relationship
  • An invitation to a 15 session alignment package – because you are just getting activated and started, it can be easy to fall back into old patterns and learning. It takes time and additional sessions to maintain and sustain the energy alignment activation. Each session is focused on one of the 15 dimensions of healthy relationships where we dive deeper into designing your dream life with your partner.  Doing this before you meet them sets you up for success because your mind, body, and energy are clear, you start to attract more of what is in alignment with your clarity. You will receive 15 structured lessons and worksheets for each of the 15 dimensions of healthy relationships.

P.S.  Please don’t allow your judgments, money or time fears, or critical thinking to keep you from doing this!  I am passionately committed to you being relationship ready and attracting the love of your life… and they are waiting for you to connect with them. This will be the best time and money you have ever invested in yourself..  Start with the no cost free chat.

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Frequently Asked Questions

 How much does this cost?

Rather than push you away with pricing or money objections, I want to speak with you and find a way to work together to honor your people pleasing qualities, address relationships that don’t honor you, and give you the tools to thrive in all your relationships going forward.  Schedule your consultation and let’s find a way to heal your heart, clear your mind, honor your needs, be solid in your identity, and prepare you to have reciprocal relationships.

How much time is involved?

Honestly, this is up to you and your choice.  On average this is a three to six month process. Most of my clients choose to continue coaching with me even after they have a committed relationship.  You will receive tremendous value… in a way that energizes you to attract and be ready for your dream partner and relationship right away, in an aligned and feel good way!  

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