Important question for people pleasers, givers, and service providers still seeking answers to life’s deeper questions… even after completing Myers-Briggs, Big 5, Human Design, Enneagram, Strengths Finder
or any other personal(ity) assessment
If there was a practical, logical, inspiring, easy to understand way
(with just enough woo) to get answers to the deeper questions
in your life you’ve been seeking…
Would you at long last feel hopeful in knowing who you are, why some relationships click and others don’t, how to transform relationships with non-people pleasers, and how to feel good about yourself and
thrive in your life and work?
Because what follows could be another way to
tap into your life that’s
full of magic and mystery.
body energy map – human design for people pleasers
Come here…just a little closer and say hello to –
The Body Energy Map
Because you deeply crave guidance to find yourself and accept who you really are
rather than who you were made to believe and think you were…
Or learned to be for the sake of others, to just feel like you belong, to be loved, or
just to keep the peace.
Human Design for People Pleasers, Givers, and Service Providers
The thing is, it’s always been inside you,
there just wasn’t anyone to show you how to see yourself in quite this way.
Now, you’ll be able to find your answers not only in the stars (that picture in the sky at the time of your birth, unique to only you) but also in the places you may not have considered before like Astrology, Human Design, Quantum Mechanics, I-Ching, Kabbalah, Universal laws of physics – ancient systems and sciences that have guided people for centuries…(even the ridiculously wealthy and presidents.) Isn’t it even just a little exciting that you’ll be able to see it, use it, benefit from it, and most importantly, relax into it too?
Everything is energy.
You are energy.
Change your energy and you will change your life
and the world. – Kasim Khan
Hi I’m Darshana…Dr. Dar.
I’ve been working with energy, well, ever since I can remember… I just did not know it as a child. You see, I believe as people pleasers, we work with energy around us all the time… we just don’t know it!
It wasn’t until I hit rock bottom in my life that I decided I needed to see my life, and the energies at play, in a new way. A way outside of what I had been taught in the past. A way to learn about my environment, human energy patterns, earth energies, laws of physics, and more.
(I know, it sounds like a paradox.)
This way of being, having, and doing was always in me, I just needed to see it and feel it in a way that worked…for me. A way that honored human beings as holistic, multi-dimensional, spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional energy.
Not by someone else’s prescribed dictated one size fits all model or method – that felt yucky to me – my body just felt repelled, revolted… and dishonored.
What I discovered is that this energy honoring way was something so natural, already present in the deepest part of me that it was like “remembering” what I knew all along.
So I dove in. I learned. I FELT, SENSE, HEARD, and UNDERSTOOD the energy. More importantly I felt the shift… and it just got better and better.
As a 4/6 Mental Projector, my Human Design Body Energy Map helped me become completely stress free, attract wonderful opportunities, have more time, increase my income, naturally release past trauma, transform relationships to become mutually reciprocal and harmonious, and so much more.
Because I understand what it is like to have a people pleasing personality in a world and relationships that don’t cater to us, I bring a unique approach to this body of work I call the Body Energy Map.
And because of my deep work and studies, I’m able to bring this to you in a simple, understandable and honoring way that works for you… that honors you as a people pleaser and giver.
I invite you to work with me as your trusted advisor, facilitator, and coach to learn about your body energy map (human design for people pleasers) and how to make the best of this life, your life, in this world now. Human Design for People Pleasers
Learning about your energy in your body, how and when it ebbs and flows, and how to understand
what happens to it when you’re in contact with others and in your environments
has a direct connection to feeling good about yourself, your life, work, and relationships.
Turn the corner on your own energy and go from feeling:
- Taken advantage of, manipulated, blamed, criticized, or judged
- Exhausted – even from the little things
- Anxious – when you really thought your day was going well
- Frustrated – because you can’t seem to control things
- Defensive – it seems like it’s becoming your natural state these days
- Nervous – because it feels like no one else understand or gets it
- Fearful – being stuck is not the way you want to live your life
- Angry – things just should feel this damn hard
- Sad – because you know there is more to your life
- Disgusted – by compromising who you are for the sake of others.
Body Energy Map – Human Design for People Pleasers
To following your unique energy strategy
- Harmony, joy, love, freedom, and fun in your life – just about every day.
Balanced so you don’t have to fight or work so daggum hard in your life – and feel good about taking needed time off
Satisfied and energized by the decisions you make – and it feels so natural.
Happy about…well everything. You see things in a new and exciting way.
Surprised that life feels more simple and easy.
Confident in communicating and connecting with family members without conflict – and that makes everyone feel good.
Surprised or joyful at how your energy and vibe brings results without having to work darned hard for it – energy doing the walking and talking.
- Ease of making decisions – ones that felt difficult in the past now feel straightforward. Human Design for People Pleasers
And each part of your body draws in energy, sends it out, or stores it
You also need to be aware that many things affect energy and how you absorb or process it including: words (you’ve felt during inspiring talk or heated arguments), thoughts (self talk is a biggie), feelings (like love, joy, anxiety or anger), environment (open and flowing or closed and uncomfortable), other people (one person can uplift your while another can bring sadness), and even food, water, etc.
Knowing you have everything it takes to work with the energies around you gives you control and guidance to make necessary and fundamental decisions.
Your body energy map provides split-second solutions to:
Realize how energy affects you
Understand the ways you are affected by outside energy forces from other people and your environment
Have strategies on how to stop reacting, getting defensive, or angry when you get triggered
Check in with your body to see if what you are processing belongs to you or if you took on someone else’s ‘stuff’
Improve conflict in relationships
Gain an understanding of how other people’s reactions affect you and what to do about it
Know exactly where your vulnerabilities exist and how to protect them
Feel good about yourself, your life, work, and relationships each and every day! Human Design for People Pleasers
Don’t worry, I won’t just plunk your map in your lap.
Here’s what you’ll get in your first session…
- A 60 minute reading on the basics of your Body Energy Map so you understand:
- Your energy type and how it works
- Ways to leverage your body’s wisdom and give your mind/head brain a break
- Which areas in your body you take in other people’s stuff/energy and what to do about it
- How to differentiate your energy versus that of others
- A recording of your session to re-listen whenever you need inspiration and reassurance
- A transcript so you can go back and read or highlight important points for you and
A workbook to keep your notes and inspirations
- 5 keys to being a healthy people pleaser who is appreciated, respected, and honored in all relationships
- Answers to 3 questions you want… answered… or are dealing with now… in your life, work, or relationships.
- And… we can schedule some follow up feel good sessions for times when you need a body energy map tune in and tune up
Are you ready to experience how it feels to move correctly in your life so you see the beauty of it, and begin to love yourself?
Initial Session Body Energy Map Reading and Coaching
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Some questions people have…
Transcend These Issues With Your
Body Energy Map Reading
How Do I….
Connect with my feelings more, perhaps even stop being so emotional or sensitive
Those feelings sneak right up on us when we least expect it. Did you know we can be sponges for other people’s feelings and think they are our own. Having a map for how and where they sneak up, what they mean when they do, whether they are yours or not, and if and how to deal with them when they do will connect you with those feelings.
Deal with an overbearing or controlling person or situation in my life?
There is nothing like a buzz and vibe kill than feeling manipulated, controlled, or not having any freedom. We feel completely out of control, powerless, scared, weak, and even unsafe. And, reacting, getting defensive, or even standing up for yourself makes the other person get worse. You and I will look at your body energy map together with this specific person or situation in mind. You will have a standard go to strategy on how to manage your energy and emotions in the moment and will be able to prevent getting defensive, emotional, reactive, or even angry. You will be able to neutralize the other person’s negative behavior as well.
Learn about this on my own?
There is a lot of information about human design in the mainstream than ever before. I am finding there are many people who are not aligned with the sacredness of your energy and this body of knowledge. They are in the ‘let me tell you what I know and think’ model. For example, I was just watching a video of someone talk about the energy types yesterday and promoting one type as the best type for manifesting. That is simply not true, nor is it how the body energy map works. You can find lots of information online and even run your own chart… but just this morning I was looking at a chart a friend sent me that they pulled off a website… and it was wrong… it was incorrect. That’s why I invite you to use your own discretion, caution, and discernment when doing this on your own. I honor you, your energy, and what’s best and aligned for your highest good… in all ways… and always.
Work on a relationship with someone else who won’t participate in sessions with me?
The thing about your body energy map… and theirs… is that you don’t need to have them physically participate in the sessions with me. By us tuning your energy and how it interacts with their energy in any situation… you will experience and learn how to transform it so that you have a different experience of them… with them. Einstein said that “Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be changed from one form to another” and that’s what we will do together, transform the energy! This may sound foreign to you because we’ve all been taught to create or destroy through conversation and words we use… this is a different approach to thriving in your life and relationships.
Stop being negatively impacted by my mom, dad, sibling, in-laws… behavior, attitude and how they treat me?
Oh those childhood triggers pop up at the slightest look or words from our parents or other family member. It’s like we feel just like that little girl did when that memory of being treated that way appears again like it is happening right now. We act out and feel unfulfilled, misunderstood, and frustrated all over again. You see, we all have been conditioned through past experience and memory. We also have been trained to use our minds to solve everything. But emotions, feels, memories, and conditioning cannot always be solved logically or rationally… it can with your energy map, through a few simple tweaks to your energy.
Stop attracting the same thing over and over again
I don’t believe we are tested over and over again until we learn the lesson. Once you understand how energy works, couple that with how your energy works in your body energy map, and once you know your unique energy mantra of what to do, you will stop attracting the same thing over and over again… if you no longer want it.
Exhausted – a situation or relationship sucking the energy out of them
Ah the energy suckers drain the joy and life out of us, don’t they. It feels like we just cannot take on one more thing, make a decision, answer a question, and we just want to go to bed or sit mindlessly in front of a television or just be silent for several hours. And then, we still feel drained, physical, mental, emotionally and spiritually.
When you know how your energy flow works, you will have an almost automatic protection from other people’s energy suckers. It will take a bit of adjustment to the new body energy map way, but once you are comfy with it, you will be amazed at how much more energy, time, and joy you have in your life.
Want to leave a situation, relationship, job, home – but don’t know how
As women, we’ve been taught to stay, overlook an issue, avoid it, or just suck it up. So, it is even more difficult to make the choice to leave. On top of that feeling rejected, not belonging, and fear of the unknown add to that difficulty. When you align with your body energy, it becomes clear as to what feels good and what does not. It becomes simpler to see what can or cannot be done. And frankly, when something if flat out not working, cannot be transformed, or just is no longer in alignment with our Body Energy Map, our steps and path become crystal clear.
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