Communication Magic

Be Understood, Feel Heard, and Be Appreciated

By People Who are NOT People Pleasers, Givers,

Empathic, Emotional, or Sensitive

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Communication Magic for People Pleasers 

Stop Keeping What You Want to Stay Bottled Up

Know What To Say, How to Say It, and When to Say It

I am here to support you in having the conversations you are not having so that you can have the results you desire in your life by sharing simple, joyful, easy, and honoring ways of how to say it. 

Have The Words To Communicate

What We Want Can Be Downright Difficult or Even Impossible

Say goodbye to stress, worry, loss of sleep, feeling bad about yourself, feeling guilty, or anything else that does not serve your highest good.

It’s just a conversation.

When you plan, prepare, and practice with me, you will be ready to have the conversation you’ve been dreading, avoiding, or delaying.  And… you will experience a better result than what you may be thinking right now.

Your Freedom depends on your having this conversation.

The chains of not having the conversations that need to be had are weights on your shoulders.   You can be free from the stress and strain of the relationships where you are not saying what needs to be said, tolerating things that don’t feel good, not being heard or understood, or being seen and acknowledged.  Work with me to remove them today.

Hi, I’m Dr. Dar and I have been asked how to have conversations, what words to use, and how to say it since I was about 14 years old. Today, I honor my gift of communicating from a space of compassion and love while also showing others how to ask for what they need and want, negotiate alternatives, and find common ground in conversations they would just shy away from or avoid only to become resentful, bitter, or resigned in those relationships where they are not being forthright.

I have launched my How To Say It coaching service for on the spot support for conversations you need or must have or are avoiding but know you need to have that are creating loss of sleep, worry, anxiety or avoidance.

If you know someone who is not addressing what needs to be said in any relationship (personal or professional) please send them my way. I know I can help… expeditiously with joy and ease.

Drdar Blacknwhite Right

Much unhappiness has come into the world because of bewilderment and things left unsaid.
― Fyodor Dostoevsky


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“Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. The greatest problem with communication is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. When we listen with curiosity, we don’t listen with the intent to reply. We listen for what’s behind the words.”   ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

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