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I coach compassionate, generous women/men who want to improve their relationship, save their marriage, communicate better, heal from past relationships and be ready for the next one.

Couple'S Relationship Success Toolkit - The Relationship Success System - Dr. Dar Hawks

The Relationship Success Toolkit for Couples

I’m creating a Relationship Success Toolkit to help couples, like you, have better relationships and communication while future proofing your relationship for success going forward.

The toolkit will include:

  • The 5 Relationship Languages
  • Healthy and Unhealthy Behaviors
  • 15 Relationship Competency Skills Playbook
  • Practicing Curious Communication
  •  Individual and Relationship Values
  • Bonus:  30 minute 1:1 coaching session on how to use your toolkit on your own or with your partner 





Save Your Marriage in a Weekend

A private facilitated weekend to fix the issues in your marriage that are threatening a possible ending. 

With transformational coaching, mediation and facilitation, you will be able to talk through things calmly

Both of your perspectives will be addressed in a civil, respectful, and collaborative manner with the goal of finding common ground… even in the midst of diverse opinions and disagreement.

By the end of the weekend, you both will know exactly what it will take to save your marriage, choose whether or not you’re committed to doing it, and have an action and accountability plan for creating a happier marriage and life together.

Save Your Marriage In A Weekend Package - Dr. Dar Hawks
Couples Coaching - The Relationship Success System - Dr. Dar Hawks

Personal, Private, Confidential 1:1 Coaching Packages

For one on one support to:

  • Understand each other’s Relationship Language
  • Learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors,
  • Reorient you from what’s not working to what is with the intent to reduce stress, anger, or frustration 
  • Learn curious communication skills that build intimacy and deeper connection
  • Learn relationship competency skills that future proof your relationship for success
  • Embrace a neutral attitude and mood to nip conflict or tension before it starts
  • Receive nurturing, practical, nonjudgmental support to restore love, trust, communication, and partnership.

* Customized options to work within your budget are available.  Let’s chat.

How to Get Started…


Get in Touch

The first step is to understand what’s going on in your relationship, what outcome you would like to have happen, and what you think it will take to have that outcome.

Have a Welcome Call

We’ll get to know each other over a quick Zoom call where we’ll talk about what’s going on, what you want and need, and the options of us working together.

Get Started

Now that we’ve worked out exactly what you need and assessed how we can work together, let’s enroll you into the right program and get started right away.


It’s no easy task to impress me as I’ve been a successful Executive Coach working with Fortune 500 CXO’s for over two decades.  My husband of 25 years and I had been going to therapy to work out our issues for over twenty years.  I met Dr. Dar at a conference… I was impressed by her aptitude, education, credentials, ability to listen and understand multiple points of view without projecting her opinions/beliefs on me, and her collaborative coaching style to identify solutions that could work for us. I also knew that she would help us fix our issues so that we would not need to keep having to rehash the same issues over and over again like we had been. 

You may think that no one can fix a marriage in one weekend… but that’s what you’re taught to think so that you keep paying for services over and over again.  Dr. Dar said that I don’t have time or money to waste so let’s get this solved once and for all.  In one weekend, she was able to drill down to the core issue that was plaguing my marriage and gave us an action plan to change our attitude and behaviors when it came to communication, finances, shared responsibilities, and honoring our agreements to each other. We stopped fighting and started listening without gaslighting each other.  I come home to a happier home every day now.  I highly recommend her save your marriage in 1 weekend service – it’s worth every penny. I even hired her to help my daughter with an abusive marriage situation a couple of years later because I knew she could fix it.  ~ L. L.

Note: Due to the sensitivity of the work they do with Dr. Dar, her clients do not provide pictures or their full names.  Dr. Dar has a strict confidentiality agreement in place with her clients which is one of many reasons she is sought after for her services.

Discover the Power to
Transform Your Relationship

Improving or even saving your relationship can be as easy as learning about the 5 Relationship Languages™.  Empowered with this understanding, you can shift the energy in your relationship, navigate even the most challenging moments, and create the relationship you’ve lost along the way or never quite found. The 5 Relationship Languages Quiz

Your Relationship Language is running in the background all the time, impacting every interaction you have in your relationship. Without understanding this subconscious system, you are missing the ultimate key to better communication, calmer interactions, and a more fulfilling relationship. The 5 Relationship Languages Quiz

Quick and straight-forward, the 5 Relationship Languages Quiz is your first step towards a happier, healthier, more harmonious relationship. The 5 Relationship Languages Quiz

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